Change – And An Identity Crisis

Our dearest is currently having an ‘identity crisis’. Who is she? What does she represent? Two questions our dearest is mulling over.

This is quite understandable given the parameters in which she lives. To give a little perspective:

The past four decades (and more) have been devoted primarily to what is termed the ‘spiritual sphere’ of life. As a clairaudient (able to hear spirit) it has been her joy to be our typist extraordinaire. However, of late, our dearest has been enjoying the ‘physical’ aspect of life. Her love of ‘health’ and all that this represents has become a focal point within her days; hence, the identity crisis.

Who is she now? What will become of her mentality if not focused upon the spiritual?

These questions will become the norm for all who find themselves changing. And why do they ‘change’? An easy question:

Change, and the following confusion is only possible when one ‘is’ changing.

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19 comments

  1. Change can be hard, but it’s also part of growth. God reminds us that our true identity is in Him, not in what we do. He guides every season of our lives. Amen 🙏

    1. Yes, it is definitely a part of growth; a confusing part of growth in this chapter of my life experience that is confounding me a little. However, all change is needed, otherwise there would be ‘stalemate’. Ugggh…

      1. I understand completely. Growth can be confusing and uncomfortable, but it’s often where God does His deepest work in us. Keep trusting His process, He’s shaping something beautiful, even in the uncertainty. 🙏🏼

        1. Please do not be offended; I know you as a God fearing man and I applaud your dedication and belief. I, on the other hand, believe in spirit and the teachings I have received from them over the past 40 something years. That does not mean that the twain will never meet; quite the opposite. Our views upon life are far more similar than dissimilar. You have a good heart, and it shows in all of your comments and replies. I do hope we can continue corresponding with good will and joy.

          I heartily agree that “something beautiful” is in progress…

          https://abcofspiritalk.net/2021/09/17/episode-6-the-c-c-interview-carolyn/

          1. Thank you, my friend. I’m not offended at all. I truly respect your path and appreciate your kindness. I believe God connects hearts in ways beyond understanding, and I’m grateful we can share with mutual respect and joy. 🙏

    1. Change for me, these past years, Pooja, has been a constant. This, I know, is a healthy state of being, providing they, naturally, are of a positive vibe. Sometimes the changes are small yet rapid and many. Sometimes deeply rich and profound. However, the changes, of late, are leading me outside my general comfort zone, bringing with them a sense of discomfort… This will, I know, regulate into normalcy as I integrate the new knowledge and ideas into my daily life.
      As humans, we are geared to change and flourish, or remain fixed, leading to boredom and negativity. I know where I prefer to be. It just takes a little courage leaving behind values that no longer serve our greatest good, and embracing the new. Sometimes scary, but always beneficial. 🤗 🤗 🤗

    1. The C.C. have mentioned within our writings that they kept me from entering many a career I tried to engage in to keep me within the ‘spiritual sphere’ of life (this was my ‘script’, as it were). They have said that they ‘sheltered me’; that I have lived a ‘sheltered’ existence. The reason has been so that what we have achieved, as a team, could be accomplished. Now that much of that has been done, the need is now not as great to remain ‘sheltered’.
      Recently, I have found myself really enjoying being within the ‘physical’ aspect more and more, looking forward to being out in company, as an example. I am also becoming quite ‘outspoken’; something I would always recoil from within my day to day. I am also finding myself going out of my way to enter into conversations with strangers I’ve felt connected to (for whatever reason) at the local mall and wherever I go. This is causing me great confusion mingled with a substantial amount of joy.
      I don’t know if I’ve answered your question, Sheryl; but, as I’ve been advised by spirit throughout the years – it’s a matter of putting one foot in front of the other and learning as you go.
      ~~~
      Indeed, our dearest has answered your question to the best of her ability. It will take many more experiences of being within the ‘physical plane’ of life before our dearest truly appreciates the effect of straddling the dimensions available. This she will write about as it becomes known.
      Many Blessings Dear Heart

  2. Charlee: “Identity crises must be tough! We cats are fortunate never to have them, since we know exactly what we are at all times.”Java Bean: “Ayyy, and what is that?”Chaplin: “Superior beings.”Java Bean: “Oh of course.”

    1. So cool… and it shows, Chaplin. The sleekness of mind and body so evident.
      I’m with you, Java Bean. It is so pleasing to see your total acceptance of the status quo. No sense rebelling; better to just accept, as you, and be at peace! 🙏

  3. Growth is challenging, but something we all need to do. I know this may be controversial, but as a long range shooting school, I’ve seen plenty of people go through growth periods. What I mean is that they come to us for a reason. Be it to try something new or scary, or simply improve a skill. Either way, I count it as a blessing to be a part of their growth. I wish the best for your dearest as she goes through her identity crisis and period of challenging growth.

    1. I can relate. When I was counselling, on a spiritual basis, I enjoyed seeing individuals walk away with a clearer mindset, and greater confidence to face their life challenges. To be a part of progress, in any form, is incredibly rewarding.
      Thank you for your well-wishes. This post, and the responses, such as yours, are assisting me greatly.

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